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John says in his third letter that he has no “no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.” I got a little bit of that this week as our “Little Middle” daughter befriended a Muslim girl at their middle school STEM camp.
There are at least three reasons it’s good for Christian kids to befriend Muslim kids (probably 83!):
1. Connecting with people not like them helps form a deep-down, fundamental understanding that different people see things in different ways. This helps combat the all too common current sentiment that assumes, “The way I see things is the way they are and people who ‘see’ them differently are stupid. . . and probably evil.”
2. If you build a decent friendship with a Muslim kid, maybe you get to the point you can talk about stuff you have in common like Jesus and how great he is, about Moses and what we can learn from him, and how to navigate challenging lives before the face of God.
3. Befriending a Muslim becomes a data point. It doesn’t say everything about every thing, but it does break down some of the weirdness of, “Oh my gosh, that person is different from me. I’ve heard I should be afraid of them and angry with them,” replacing it with, “but I’m not because I have this friend who is frankly amazing.”
Since my A-girl has set such a beautiful example, I’ve got to go this afternoon and meet her friend’s dad. I’ll try to do good like my daughter has done good and befriend him, show him the honor he merits and learn some good stuff from him.
Finally, this nascent friendship gave my daughter a rare and wonderful gift today: She witnessed the relief and joy in her friend’s eyes as she shared that today, after nine years of work, trials and tears, while the kids were at STEM camp, learning about trains and bridges, her mom was at the state capital becoming a U.S. citizen!
Timely Request:
Muslim Connect has always been free and will alway be so. That said, a couple of times a year, I invite grateful readers to donate to help it thrive. This summer, I have a special request: Our family of five is going to Guatemala in October with our church and Healing Nations to care for some overlooked people. You can read about these trips here. If Muslim Connect has helped, encouraged, informed or poked your buttons, please consider giving a gift that will help me, my wife and our three kiddos get to Guatemala. We expect this journey to be extremely formative in the kids’ lives. Anna will continue to help poor and underserved people see better. I’d be grateful for your gift. Click here, select “Healing Nations Trips,” type in “Bennetts’ October Trip.” Thank you to those who’ve given. You’ve been so helpful! We’re almost halfway to the goal!